Damn The Two Timer!!!

I remember When I saw the full trailer of one of the best tragic love story I’ve ever seen in my entire life of mandy moore and shane west’s ” a walk to remember” which has the tag line “Love is a leaf of faith and has no bounderies”. This line lingers on me when I recap the first date of my entire Love life, the day I was so in love. well, until now people possess the same way, when day fall in love they remembered for as long as they could, no matter when and why are you committed to each other. well this issue is actually matters “Love Affair, Love Prefer and Cyber Affair” why coz people nows a day are getting in love immediately whether personal or non-personal.

I would give example of what you called “A Love Story” this were like the story of the blockbuster movie of Maricel Soriano, Aga mulach and Angelica Panganiban….well anyway, this is the story of my friend whose heart was fell apart with the wrong guy in a chat room where this two opposite sex made a lot of their words and action into intimate passion (sa cam lng ito ha). The relationship started where this stupid guy na makapal ang mukha asked my friends hand to be committed, they were at one when they had already 3 months on their cyber affair. The stupid guy really likes the girl and they were very happy with each others care. Things didn’t work out right when the girl suddenly felt she was out casted by the stupid guy, the reason is that the girl saw the avatar picture of her “cyber boyfriend” with other girl in a conversational talk in a private message of theirs.. Well of course the girl immediately erased the picture of them in her address lists and got angry in the second place and that day they broke each others commitment without any explanation needed….(hindi mo naman masasabi na nangarir lang silang dalawa kasi meron ng kasamang …Emotional Investment)…. well, this guy I could say that he is worst than “HAYOP” and I always believe in “Karma”, and this bad karma will come your way soon. Well, the stupid guy said once to my friend that she always got intimate for somebody or “Kinarir daw niya” the people in chat room. but well reality says the reasonable truth that siya pala ang karir ng karir. How I pity you… your such a “LOSER”.

so, this is just an awakening “part of their lives” which could be a “part of us”…

TIPS:

1.) Don’t be ignorant on this story coz this is real.

2.) don’t fall in love immediately.

3.) Love not for 100% but let the 100% come your way.

4.) do not rely on the saying “Love at first sight” but “Love at million times of sight”lols

5.) Love one another not to the best that you can (If and only if you’re not yet compatible with each other)

6.) Don’t be fooled by the stupid guy lover in net.

7.) The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.

8.) Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.

9.) Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

10.) We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.

8 Comments

  1. hayzz….karir nga naman!!!

    i’ve been there in that situation for so many times… as in many times!!!

    Lesson:…. Know the consequences… and don’t expect too much.

    SIS love u so much muahhh!!!!

  2. Good Day!!

    Gaya ng mga na kumento ko nitong mga nakaraang araw sa isang BLOG din. ang chatroom ay isang medium para makapaglibang, makahanap ng kaibigan (hindi Ka-Ibigan), makipag dal-dalan ang isang nilalang na nalulungkot at nais na mapasaya ang kanilang buhay (na kagaya mo na nagbabasa nito ngayon).

    Ang CYBER CHAT ay punong puno ng emosyon na nang-gagaling sa mga taong masugid na tumatangkilik nito. sa isang banda hindi mo masi-sisi ang mga taong na huhumaling sa mga emosyong ito. dahil sa emsoyong ito marami sa mga tao sa ngayon ang nahihikayat na mag CYBER CHAT. Sa kabilang banda marami rin sa mga ito ang kinakain ng emosyong ito. ang iba ay lumulutang sa alapa-ap habang nakikipag palitan ng emosyon sa kapwa nila CHATTER.

    Ngunit, Subalit, datapwat…

    Kailangan din nating isa-alang alang na ang CYBER CHAT ay may pagkakaiba sa tunay na buhay, hindi kinakailangan na ibagay mo ang tunay na emosyon sa isang CHATTER na hindi mo naman talga kilala ng personal. Isipin din na ang CYBER CHAT ay isang makabagong paraan para makahanap ng kaibigan (CYBER FRIEND) at hindi ng Ka-IBIGAN maliban na lamang kung ang mga ito ay humantong na sa pagkikita ng personal.

    Hindi mo makiki-lala ang tunay na saloobin ng isang nilalang sa pag-uusap lang gamit ang mga alpabeto na nilikha ng kung sinumang herodes. sabi ka ng karamihan sa CYBER CHAT marami ang sinungaling o hindi nagsasabi ng TOTOO (pwera ako). sa mga katagang ito pa lamang ay hindi na nararapat pag samahin ang emosyon ng totoong buhay at emosyon ng CYBER WORLD. hindi ko naman sinsabi na wag makipag kaibigan at magtiwala sa kapwa mananalastas ng makabagong talastasan bagkus lagyan natin ng limitasyon ang ating mga sarili sa pakikipag-kaibigan upang hindi ito humantong sa pakikipag-kaIBIGAN. at sa huli ay magiging sanhi nag pagsisisihan.

    Hindi na natin maiiwasan ang mga nilalang na gumagawa nito mapa lalake man yan o babae. dahil mas madaling makalabas sa gusot kung ang namuong emosyon sa pagitan ng bawat nilalang ay namuo lamang sa loob ng kwarto ng CYBER CHAT.

    Mag silbing aral nalamang ang pangyayaring ito sa kapwa natin mananalastas upang maiwasan ang pagkakahumaling o pagkahalina sa isang taong hindi naman talga nag sasabi ng tunay nyang nararamadaman sa kapwa nya mananalastas (na NGANGARIR lang).

    Sa mga nilalang na gumagawa ng mga bagay na ito PUSANG KINALBO.. hindi ka nakakatuwa bagkus nakakasakit ka ng damdamin ng kapwa mo. kung wala kang magawang matino wag kang mag pa-asa ng isang nilalang na INOSENTE pa sa larangan ng pakikipag kaIBIGAN.. mag BATE-BOT kana lang safe pa. (c;

    Sa mga nilalang na nahuhumaling o madaling mahalina sa mga nilalang na gumagawa nito mag-isip isip po kayo isa-alang alang po ninyo na kayo ay wala sa tunay na mundo na inyong gingalawan bagkus kayo po ay nasa CYBER WORLD wag na wag po ninyong ibigay ang emosyon ng inyong PUSO (emotion of LOVE) sa mga taong ito upang sa huli ay hindi kayo masaktan o hindi nyo pagsisihan (BABAE o LALAKE).

    Muli ito po ay sariling opinyon lamang at wala po akong kinalaman dito. (c;

    Paalala::

    Wag mangarir kung ayaw nyong MAKARIR…. (c;

    Ako nalang karir nyo… =)) (c;

  3. 1.) Don’t be ignorant on this story coz this is real.

    =yeah kaya nga binasa ko muna:D

    2.) don’t fall in love immediately.

    = for me dont think so kc sabo nga nila u can lie for others but not for ur self

    3.) Love not for 100% but let the 100% come your way.

    = datz unfair dapat give en take en…..

    4.) do not rely on the saying “Love at first sight” but “Love at million times of sight”lols

    = yeah agree ako dyan kc it means for me u like that person when u first saw her or him

    5.) Love one another not to the best that you can (If and only if you’re not yet compatible with each other)

    = yeah yun lang:D

    6.) Don’t be fooled by the stupid guy lover in net.

    = d nmn lahat stupid e…ehemmm

    7.) The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain.

    = kaya nga love e wat ever it takes if u love dat person d mo na din mararamdaman un pain unless mauntog ka..hahaha

    8.) Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.

    = agree ako dyan coz naramdaman ko b4 yan … yun tipong kala mo cya na tapos hindi pala

    9.) Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

    = hmmmmmmmm…oo n lng:D

    10.) We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.

    = sweet d ko alam yan:D

    === we all know that no person is perfect sometimes we make a mistakes by loving someone nangyayari to madalas if u cant find true love or meron ka nkikitang kulang sa person n yun pero minsan ginagwa natin jaz for fun like sex flirt lahat na……alam ntin n mali yun pero think about it walang xcitement ang relations pag wala ganun kesa yun boring d b??? kc making a mistake ay mapapatunayan mo na ikaw talaga o hindi ang para sa kanya…yun nga lang dapat alerto ka kc bka magaling magtago yun..hahahaha….kaya dapat mag icip ka oo ikaw na bumabasa nito..lol

    i dont want karir i want is foe ril…vow

  4. 1. It’s a chatroom… Everybody can be somebody. That means they can be sweet and gay despite of the rough exterior. Solution: Don’t give your 100% instead give them your 10% and let them go 90%. If they really like you, they should make an effort. I’m not saying to play hard to get, but atleast don’t let them know that you’ll marry them in a heartbeat.

    2. That “ASAWA KO” or “I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER EVEN IF I DIE OF CONSTIPATION” I don’t believe in that shit. Really! At BF/GF stage they’ll say they will never go apart. . . Then a couple of months later you’ll learn that they broke up. Never state things that you can’t do, falling face first on the floor is pretty much painful you know? Just enjoy the BF/GF stage first before blurting crap like these.

    3. Investigation. No, I am not saying that you should do the Detective Dick flick but instead try to know the person more. Like stated in number 1, everybody can be somebody. This way you will know people’s strengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes, personality, and the sort. Can do your research? Try asking his/her friends that would help.

    4. Expect conflicts and pain… What? You think that when you’re inlove it feels like Christmas everyday? You’ll also go through different kinds of shit! But conflicts are good, it makes you a stronger and wiser person. Pain? for me it’s a lesson to be learned and reflected on not a thing to cry and sulk. So chin up and accept these things with a grace of an adult and not the grief of a child.

    5. Drink your heartache away? What are you? Fucking stupid?! You must be watching too much TV. It’s gonna take your prolems away TEMPORARILY. . . Why not just confront it and put an end of all your suffering?

  5. naku karir…sandamukal na nakarir kya alm q na mga style nyang mga hindot na yan hahahah…well tama ka sis KARMA ang aabutin nila..wat goes around comes back around nga db..it’ called karma baby, and it goes around hahahah… :p bsta mahirap magtrust ngaun especially pg sa net mo lng nakilala kc naku….hahaha…bsta dami q na naexperience kc eh soo..tsktsk..kya ngaun, ive learned to play safe so i dnt get hurt…
    *fcuk for those hu left me broken*
    ..look hus cryin, askin for 2nd chance…DUH??! back off LIARS!!USERS!!get lost MORONS!
    …..hahahah galit na galit ba?!joke lng yan… :P:P:P:P

    **LUV U SISSY**

  6. hmmm… do i really have to leave a comment on this one? i must accept that ive been a two timer… yes, u read it clear… im a two timer guy… but i have my reasons… others may not understand me… coz no matter what reason i have… im still a two timer…

    waaaaa, mah fren… confession ba ito!
    lam ko naman mah fren na ikaw lng nakakainitindi sakin…
    o pilit mu lng iniintindi

    well payo ko lng…
    sa mga balak mag two time, planuhin maigi…
    wag magiiwan ng trace na pede nyong ikapahamak…

    dun naman sa mga karelasyon ng two timer…
    be vigilant!
    maging mapagmasid sa bawat kilos ng karelasyon nyo…
    remember, ang isda ay nahuhuli sa bibig… pero madulas ang mga palos! lols!!!

    nice topic sis! langya…
    ang dami ttamaan nito sa MMB5!
    ung iba jan,

  7. wow lols even doing that sguro mga 5 yrs na but now born again na ako, pero di nman msama ang pkkipag sop or cyber but just put limitation like sa sop put some limitation na wag tutok sa wet spot bka msira ang phone nyo pag wireless mdali msira pag nababasa. second is cyber nman use ur cam ingat ka sa pagjjakol bka mtalsikan pc mo mag llagkit ito sa sahig sbay mddulas ka mbbagok kpa patay ka kya everything is kailngan lagyan ng limitation get that. gumagaling na ang batang nag comment lang alam ngayon nag blog na din.

  8. hey guys!
    are u still up??
    i have different story but same issue,
    –► 2 timer then the “mang-aagaw” thing.

    i really felt bad about it.
    HE is my first bf and I’ve been so true to him.
    H-E-L-P!!!


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